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On a serious note

jd3 - 2009-07-29 16:44

It is so hard to watch a loved one relapse into drug abuse. The hurt and pain it causes runs deep. What hurts even more is walking away and telling yourself you can do no more.

After 10 months of clean living I have watched her lose everything in just a weeks time. It's so sad but I cannot let her drag me down with her.

I feel bad about giving up. But there is just no more help in me.

jaredscottfla - 2009-07-29 23:48

Confused mother,sister,wife,GF??? Confused

jd3 - 2009-07-30 00:47

Girlfriend of 18 months.

ford93 - 2009-08-02 06:38

Sometimes they need to be left alone. It sometimes work but then again it could worsen. Had she tried any type of program to relieve her of this addiction?

jt - 2009-08-02 11:14

Good luck.

Sorry to hear this, but at some point you do have to make sure you keep yourself in check and secure your existence. Sounds like you've reached the point where its a no-win situation either way.

ghettoblaster4life - 2009-08-02 23:56

i know iv never chatted with you but iv been in such a relationship,i even had my baby girl with this person.she was a completely different person when she didnt do drugs and she was the love of my life and i had to walk away.im sure it will be a very hard thing for you to do.anytime you feel like going back to her just think back on how bad she was and not how much you care for her and keep moving foward.im sure you will always care for her but you cannot let that stand in your way.everyday will get a little better.gb4l.